Hump Day, As It Was One Of Those Days

Hello My Friends.

It’s Hump day and it’s not been a good one at all. Just one of those days is all. Was late to work about ten minutes which was no big deal but then some guys were there working on the servers at the job and next thing I know I wasn’t able to get onto Bear411. Bummer as I knew it would be coming sooner or later. I guess they are welcoming us to a new year. Now I will have to find a new way to pass my down time at work. I guess I’ll be more productive on my project with all the extra time on my hands. Found out later on one of our sister facilities was going to send us six of their kids to work in a special program we have set up at my facility. However today isn’t a scheduled day so I wasn’t in a good mood for sure as I knew those kids wouldn’t arrive until seven or eight tonight in which they did. Seven thirty to be exact. I didn’t get paper work until eight thirty and was leaving at nine so needless to say the kids didn’t get fully processed. I’ll complete their files when I get there tomorrow. Guess I’ll be going in early tomorrow after I take my father to his doctor appointment in the morning. May he’s killing me with then. One for every week of this month.

I called my Ex’s Mother today as he asked me check in on here in his letter. So far she’s going fine. Says she’s going to get married again to the man she’s been living with. Took something like this to make her change her mind to go ahead and do it I guess. Also found out she was in the hospital for about a week as it was over whelming for her. Still she’s sticking by her son. I still have mixed emotions about it but I won’t abandon him as a friend. He’s asked if would come see him but there again I have mixed emotions as well. This I do know I won’t get caught in that trap of feeling sorry for him and wanting to help him when I know it won’t go anywhere at all. I see no future for us at all. His mother also says they offered him a plea bargain, of four to fifteen years. He’s got a court appointed lawyer but he’s yet to meet him from what I hear. Again it sounds like he’s going to get railroaded on this for sure. His mother did fill in some of the pieces that were missing as well. The kids seem to be in good hands as she reported so I won’t worry myself over that. I do miss them but don’t really know his in laws to well so it’s best I stay away from them for awhile. I also heard he bought a new van so the kids would be comfortable as the old one was on it last legs.

I called Allen my old friend Monday as it was his Birthday as well as Elvis’s too. He was doing well as I haven’t seen in a while. I need to get over there and see the new pool he put in as well. I man have to show case the place in one of my publications to see what 1.5 million will buy you. All I know is I had some great times there as well as him throwing some great parties. He’s always had some great places and this one is right across from a grave yard. NOW YOU KNOW! However the way the house is build you hardly notice it across the street. He has a Doctorates but rather work with his construction company instead. I’ll have to tell you more on him at a later time of maybe he will allow me to tell his story in one of my publication as well. We’ll see. He tells me he’s looking at a Landrover as well since he’s up in the age I would figure this would be his last vehicle he will own. Actually he’s talking about leasing this one which could be a good deal for him as well. Got to talk to Keith is personal assistant as well as he and I go way back. He’s kind of line in the same boat I’m in of having a lover go to prison. His lover got caught up with Drugs and just couldn’t get his act together. What’s so strange about it is he never did it until a few years ago. Was doing well in business but I guess the pressure got to him and once he started he want down hill from there. I think the difference between me and Keith is he and his lover had a future before and Alan tells me after a year of searching for a job to put him back on track it’s finally happen. So at least here is a happy ending to their story. Middle age and trying to find a job it’s not easy that’s for sure. One of the reasons why I’m starting the business as I won’t be one of those men standing in the doorway of Wal-Mart say, “Welcome to Wal-Mart.”

I’m all set for the Ball in February. Will get fitted for my Tux this weekend and made my reservation for the hotel as well. I will rent a care to drive over since my vehicle is still out of commission. I still don’t know if I have a date of not as it’s still be up in the air. He says he will be there and I will have to take him for his word. Then again I hear the committee hasn’t received any funds from him for his ticket so again we shall see. I’ll enjoy myself once it gets on the way. Bryan my friend over there says there are some folks looking to meet me and talk to me as well. So that will be good to get to know a few folks and P.R. as well. Going to line up some photo shoots while I’m there as I need two more models for issue number two. I have one lined up here in Houston at the end of January which should be fun to do. Need to get all the photo shoots out of the way so I can concentrate on the rest of the projects. Project at the printers and I feel it’s off to a good start for a premier issue. I have a lot of good ideas to bring to the table and hope they are well received. Well that’s about it for now as I need to hit the bed so I can get up early in the morning. So until fingers do meet keys I hope all had a better day than I did and looking forward to chatting with you all in the near futures. Hugs my friends and do stay in touch.